A little secret about Her - not a secret to anyone that knows her but possibly a secret to you. She is an extremely beautiful girl. No one would ever try to debate that. Maybe you'd think sexual lulls only happen to unattractive people and are caused by a lack of attraction. Not the case - it happens to attractive people, too!
Now, not only is she very beautiful, she's also aware of it. Not in a conceited manner - she doesn't brag about how attractive she is or have that chip on her shoulder that good looking girls have been known to have - but she knows.
She also has the ability that many girls NEED to develop....she can appreciate her own good looks. She's still a girl and will still have those "I don't feel pretty" days, but when she looks and feels good, she's able to appreciate that confidence and you can see it shine in her personality.
Last night, we took that another step further and let her (and I, of course) appreciate how hot and sexual she can look during sex. She'll be the first say she's not an overly sexual person. Part of the purpose of this challenge is to help her work on that. But I doubt she ever feels "sexy" unless she's made to and she rarely acts in a sexual manner. Loving, yes. Sexual, no. I hope last night helped her tap into that a little.
We pulled our rolling full length mirror beside the bed. I thought, if she can SEE how sexy she is, maybe it will help her FEEL that way too. If she FEELS that way, she might be more open to ACT that way. A lot of mights and maybes, but here's to patience, perseverance and creativity!
We tried to position the mirror and ourselves so that she could see between her legs, or at least be given a "viewers perspective". I spent a good amount of time going down on her. Letting her watch from her own and from the mirrors eyes. It definitely had some effect as she was a little more vocal than she's been recently. I wanted her to have the chance to watch herself repaying the favor. Maybe she'd understand why I like it so much if she could see how sexy she looks while doing it (although, my concept and hers might be different). Maybe she'd learn to like it more? Instead, we started having sex.
We started in our normal positions. I think she was focusing more on how she looked rather than how it felt because she wasn't cumming. This position takes a LOT of effort on my part, so I'd occasionally slow down or rest over her. We both appreciated the extra view but she wanted something particular.....
When watching porn, she always loves the "doggy-style" scenes. It's her favorite position but also very difficult for her due to the placement of her cervix. I can literally put only about 2 inches inside of her in this position or it will hurt. Either way, she wanted to watch herself having sex in this position. Well....this definitely worked. Within a matter of moments, she started to orgasm. I picked up her head and told her, "Watch yourself, I want you to see how sexy you are when you cum." and other dirty talk that she loves. That also worked. The orgasms kept coming and showed no signs of stopping.
I'm glad she can recognize and appreciate her attractiveness. I only wish she could also realize how sexy she is, be able to appreciate and display that part of her as well. Hopefully this helped.
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