I'm "Him". 29 years old. Married to a beautiful, loving wife. We have been together for almost two years now. We have a great relationship, but like most couples we've both found things are getting a little "boring" in the bedroom. The sex is great but we felt we needed to spice things up.
After much talk and research....and more talk....and more talk, we came up with The 30 for 30 Challenge. We researched "fun things to try in the bedroom". We talked about each others fantasies. We wrote down things we haven't tried before. We wrote down things we have tried and liked. We wrote down things we're both a little nervous to try .... but you only live once!
30 days in November - 30 days of something different in (or out) of the bedroom.
You'll get a post from both of us every day for 30 days. What we tried - what we enjoyed about it - what we didn't enjoy about it. This is my blog - "His" blog. You can read "Hers" here.....
The 30 for 30 Challenge (Hers)
Part of the deal is we're not allowed to read each others blogs during the challenge. Hopefully that will keep it honest!
Now, keep in mind, this is for us. Maybe we'll discover some new things we love. At the very least will be able to look back and say "I can't believe we did that."! But, if we can help other couples experiencing the same "lull", that's a huge added bonus.
So, today is November 1st. Day 1. Talk to you tomorrow.
Found your blogs from Reddit, and I love the concept. I'm definitely looking forward to reading more of your posts!
ReplyDeleteLikewise, I found your blog from Reddit and it's a great concept! My wife and I are in a similar place, we've been together a little over 2 years and are experiencing a bit of a lull in the bedroom.
ReplyDeleteI've just started reading "Just Do It" by Douglas Brown. It's about a similar challenge, but him and his wife went 101 days!! Looking forward to reading both your blogs
101 days?!? Good man! I think we'll start with 30.
ReplyDeleteAlso came over from Reddit. Sorry to hear about the unexpected outage from yesterday. I am a married man of 15 years myself. We just came back from a weeklong vacation where we connected in ways that were mind blowing. Now we are back and well things are exactly like they were before hand. Life stress I think. Anyhow, not sure what the point of that was but there it is.
ReplyDeleteI wonder you talk about ideas and things you are going to do. You talk about "mutual masturbation" night. Did you lay out a plan for the 30 days? Are you going to publish the list of discoveries that you found out about each other's fantasies? I am interested in that as my wife and I have had those conversations and some of the things were surprising. Anyhow.. keep up the good work.
We wrote out a list of over 40 fantasies/fetishes. Some are hers. Some are mine. Some are random ones we found on the internet that either appealed or scared the crap out of us.
ReplyDeleteEvery night, we're going to check off one of those 40+. Rather than keep it planned and predictable, we're going to decided each night "spur of the moment".
She's feeling much better tonight, so there will be a new idea to check off tonight!