It's begun! We looked down our list last night and picked what seemed to be the best place to start.
While searching the internet for fantasies/fetishes/ways to "spice things up", I came across a yahoo answers board where someone had suggested that "grooming" each other can be extremely sexy and great foreplay. Bathing each other, shaving/trimming each other, drying each other off, etc. We'd have to do this anyway, why not do it together and for each other?
She took to the task of shaving her legs, otherwise we would have been there for hours with me going slowly, trying not to cut her. While she was doing that, I was using the scissors to make sure I also looked trim and "kept".
We got in the shower together (which was already running out of hot water at this point!). She started by shaving me. Again, going very slowly, scared she might cut it off and our 30 day challenge would be over before it began. It wasn't really erotic by any means. A woman had a razor to my balls. I helped and showed her how to do it.
Then we switched. She lathered herself up and I began shaving her. Again, I wouldn't have considered it sexy as I spent most of the time worrying I was going to cut her. It was more of a learning experience than anything. I have never seen a vagina pulled in so many different directions. The amount of work that girls go through shaving themselves....unbelievable. Guys hair usually goes all in one direction - theirs goes in about 30.
By the time we were both clean, the hot water was completely gone. We ran to the bedroom, hopped under the covers and spent a couple minutes warming up.
Sex last night was pretty normal, for the most part. It was the change in "warm-up" we had wanted to try. I know I have a bad habit of foregoing foreplay altogether for the most part. After a long day, you're tired, you don't have energy for much - but you have this beautiful woman laying beside you. Spending a little time together making each other "presentable" might have been a nice addition for Her.
After some kissing, me going down on her for a while, kissing some more, going back down, her (reluctantly, she's not a huge fan) going down on me - we settled into the position that works best for both of us with her on her back and me on my knees. She was already extremely turned on by this point and came very quickly. 2 or 3 more of hers later, we shared one together and slowly fell asleep watching a movie together.
Sexy or not, I'm sure she appreciated a little build up and doing something together beforehand rather than "just having sex".
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I've shaved my ex in the past, and I had the same experience, constantly worried about nicking her. I do have to say, it was a great opportunity to get up close and personal and pay attention to so many things that I may not usually notice.
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